Saturday, August 20, 2011

Anthro Closet Chaos Celebrates the Caranday Cause!

In Thursday's Post, I mentioned that I had a special happy ending to report on Friday.  That hasn't changed, but since it's Saturday, I'm late.

Anthropologie Caranday Dress in Green New - Anthro Orig $178 eBay Auction $212 - July 2011

Hi Ladies!  On occasion I have been known to hide things from you.  I've had my Caranday Dress on ice for a month.  My plan was to save it for something special. 

That special day has arrived, and it has everything to do with Anthropologie's Caranday Dress

Caranday Dress in Green New - Anthro Orig $178 eBay Auction $212 - July 2011

You and I both know how hot this Dress is.  To be honest with you, I didn't know I wanted the dress.  I stumbled upon the eBay Auction Listing and suddenly I had this overwhelming urge to bid. The original price for the Caranday Dress was $178.  Bidding started at $158.  The dress was listed as never worn. Perhaps the connection to my favorite dress designer finally registered.

My Devil doesn't wear Prada, she wears Corey Lynn Calter!

So I did what any Red blooded Anthro Girl would do.  I sniped the dress with a Max bid of $235. My winning bid was for $212.  I was later refunded $10 for dry cleaning costs.  The dress appears brand new as the Seller promised, but smelled bad.

I may as well mention this now.  I learned after the fact, that I sniped at least 3 items this year from Readers.

Caranday Dress in Green New - Anthro Orig $178 eBay Auction $212 - July 2011
Jemima Shrunken Cardi - by Moth Jan 2008 Cat - Anthro Orig $88 eBay EZ Sniper $96 - Mar 2011
KM Gladiator in Green Patent - by Matt Bernson $169 - May 2009
Pears on Sterling - Etsy Shop Polished Two $9 - May 2009
Handmade Fused Glass Butterfly Pin - from Etsy Shop Primitive Pursuits $20 - May 2009

If I sniped a Green Caranday Dress in Size 6 from you on July 25th. Please forgive me


I hope you have since found a replacement Caranday. 

Today I am wearing one of the three sniped items with the Caranday Dress. Anthropologie's Shrunken Jemima Cardi by Moth.  Why am I wearing the Cardi? The strange thing is, the actual bodice is big along the top. Since peep shows are strictly forbidden at work, I covered for modesty's sake. The size 6 fits perfectly everywhere else.





I am in serious need of Carly's (Strawberry Heels Forever) F21 top, or something similar to layer underneath.  If you see something that could work, please let me know.  I was looking for a top like hers long before the Caranday Dress. Any top in Ivory, White, or very light Yellow, stretchy, thin, short or cap sleeves, with a moderately cut neckline will work.

Why am I Celebrating The Caranday Dress? 


I'll let Joni tell the first part of the story in her own words...


Many of Laura’s wonderful followers have asked what happened with my Caranday Dress purchase that went horribly wrong on Ebay, so Laura invited me to tell my story.  The reason I’m telling it is because I care that it doesn’t happen to anyone else – no one deserves disappointment like this.  Also it’s a BIG “Thank You” to all of you who have shown such great concern!  You are simply the BEST!! 

A couple of weeks ago I did a search on Ebay for a Caranday Dress and a size 2 Red Caranday dress appeared!  My heart started beating SOOO fast as I was REALLY excited!  Number 1 mistake, don’t get excited too quickly – do your homework!  I did…sort of.  It had a BIN price of just under $200 I believe, and a starting price of $149.99 by the seller.  I did NOT bid that day ladies because the seller did not have any feedback (although she could have been just cleaning out her closet?) and I had to think about it. I should have listened to my Woman’s Intuition right there but I didn’t.  The next day there was a starting bid of $149.99 by someone on July 25th who had 217 feedback stars.  So the BIN price was gone and I was really disappointed because bidding scares me.  I have had some very successful purchases on Effortless Anthropologie and only a couple on Ebay but they went well.  Still, I had lost out on a couple of dresses on Ebay and that hurts!  I then rationalized that 1 person bid $149.99 so far so SHE must think the seller is ok.  The seller offered a 7 day return policy which I KNOW most don’t (RED LIGHT ALERT) so I thought what would I have to lose, I can return it and all I would be out is my return postage.  Ladies, it was NEW without tags, A CARANDAY, who could resist?!   But still, did I think it was safe to commit?  I could ask the seller to email me a picture of the dress like I had learned to do on Effortless, but get this mistake, I didn’t want to “offend” her by questioning the authenticity of her dress.  I waited until the last day (July 28th) and decided that it would be ok, I WANTED that dress so much that it blinded me from seeing the whole picture.  I placed a high bid of $250.00 on and closed my eyes and shut off the computer not wanting to see who won till it was over.  After it was all over I held my breath and turned on the computer and OMGOSH. She said she would probably send it out the next day and I told her she was wonderful and she said I had been wonderful as well!  She couldn’t have been nicer!  Got a tracking number the next day that showed she had electronically (online) notified USPS of her Priority package and that she had paid for it to be insured for $200.  Whew!  I felt totally safe!  All weekend long I kept checking to see if the package had been scanned by USPS.  The beginning of the week still showed no acceptance scan and I wrote her a nice note asking if she had sent the dress and belt out yet, but no worries if not as I was just checking because I was hoping to wear it the following weekend.  (Girls, it was to a Katy Perry Concert in LA, COULDN’T you just SEE that dress there?!  The PERFECT Katy Perry Dress as it was red and cream stripes!)  I was so surprised that I didn’t hear from her.  Maybe she went on vacation?  I kept giving her the benefit of the doubt because I still NEVER thought I wouldn’t get it.  I sent out another nice email and checked my Ebay account and this is what she wrote on my feedback:  Sweet Ebayer!! Super fast payment. I hope you love the dress and the belt. Thanks”  Well GREAT!  All was well!  Maybe she gave the package to someone else to mail out and they forgot or just hadn’t done it yet.  She was from Florida so it was coming a long way to Southern California .  I would wear something else to the concert and I would probably get it the following Monday or Tuesday.  No problem!  By the middle of the following week, light was dawning inside poor Joni’s Pollyanna head, who always sees the glass half full. My dress and belt might not be coming.  I sent two really nice emails through Ebay asking if she had sent my package out and if not was there a situation where she wasn’t able to get it out and was there something I could do to help?  I read up on the Ebay Buyer Protection Plan and also put a search into USPS to see if it had ever been accepted (it hadn’t).  I called Ebay about the dress, and a really nice girl told me it was time to open a case against her as I had waited long enough.  Then she forwarded me to Paypal so I could talk to them about the belt.  Paypal also said it was time and a very nice man helped me.  Lastly I realized I could ask for information about her from Ebay and sure enough they emailed me an address and phone number.  I called the next morning and a Bank and Trust from Florida answered and they had never heard of her.  Now it REALLY sunk in that the dress wasn’t coming.  Silly Joni, still trusting.  This Friday I will be asked by Ebay and Paypal to “Escalate” my case against her and most likely I will receive all my money back in time.  But of course I would rather just have the dress. 

The point here is read up on EVERY piece of information Laura  has given you!  It is valuable and she is experienced!  If you already knew all of this I am proud of you!  I have learned the hard way to not let my emotions get in the way of making good choices when warning bells are ringing! 

Thank you ALL for your support!  You are AMAZING Ladies and it’s an honor to be part of this fun Community!  This loss was almost worth it for all the new friends I have made!

Ok on a nice note Ladies, I can’t BELIEVE I jumped in again but I bid on a grey size small Snakebite belt and WON!   I JUST got it in the mail (SUPER FAST!!) and it WAS brand new in Anthro online packaging and it WAS authentic!  YEA!  One down and with a hope and a prayer maybe I will get my Caranday Dress which is the LAST TREASURE on my wish list!  Woo Hoo!

Joni  :  )

Caranday Dress in Green New - Anthro Orig $178 eBay Auction $212 - July 2011
KM Gladiator in Green Patent - by Matt Bernson $169 - May 2009




For a casual Caranday look, I couldn't ask for a more perfect sandal than the KM Gladiators by Matt Bernson in Green Patent.

I was in a meeting Thursday afternoon, when I happened to check my email.  It was then I saw a comment from Kavita.  I was up and out of the room with a bathroom excuse.  I couldn't believe what I read. Kavita just found her Red Caranday Dress on eBay. Which meant that she was prepared to sell her Green Caranday to Joni.   I had never spoken to Joni personally, but she had given me her number just in case she was asleep at the wheel when the moment arrived.  Allergy Medication had knocked her out.  Later that night we screamed our joy over the phone once the transaction was under way.

I'm celebrating a happy ending to Joni's Caranday Dress Cause.  I am truly grateful to be part of this wonderful Anthro Community.  When one of it's Members is in need, this community comes to her aid.

Thank you Kavita.  The transaction was made in Anthropologie Heaven.  It couldn't have been more perfect. Can't wait to meet you!

Admire the many sides of the Caranday Dress styled by ...


Anthro Sister Love, Laura (lauramartinsemail@yahoo.com)

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The Caranday looks great on you, and I'm so so happy to hear Joni found her dress, too!!!
Ha ha, it's all about the thrill of the chase :)
I also have a list of last-season desireable items that I troll ebay for regularly: grey Alice in Autumn sweater, Leather Circle skirt, Fril Force jacket,...It's become almost a game. Wrong size, wrong colour, wrong price.
It's thrilling when you finally win!
Congrats on your new Caranday frock. I'm sure it will give you many smiles for a long time :)
1 reply · active 710 weeks ago
Amy,

I actually feel that to come to the end of a your list of desired vintage anthro is like running out of life in some weird online strategy shopping game. I am always adding something to the list. But I never actually wrote a list until recently. I love the pursuit, the find, and the conquest. And it's amazing that I have a story for so many items in my closet. Stories I am not likely to ever forget. That just adds to the pleasure of wearing the treasure.

From my Yahoo Mail - Laura
Looks great on you and I really like it with that cardigan.
I love how you styled the Caranday with the orange cardi! And, aww...I'm blushing :)
15 replies · active 709 weeks ago
You certainly made Miss Joni a very happy girl. When do you expect your Red Caranday to arrive? Oh! I have wanted to ask if it was your idea to search on Anthropologie Striped Dress when you were looking for the Caranday, or if you got the idea from me. Because I suggested in a comment on a post. Regardless, I am so happy that it worked out for you and for Joni. Isn't the Jemima Shrunken Cardi Cute with the Green Dress?

From my Yahoo Mail - Laura
Mine is arriving tomorrow! I actually just searched Anthropologie and saw a photo of the dress (not a stock photo). I recognized it and messaged the seller immediately to ask for a Buy It Now price, and she happily obliged (less than retail, too!) I actually found another listing for size 0 green Caranday here if someone is looking for it: http://cgi.ebay.com/ws/eBayISAPI.dll?ViewItem&amp...
Kavita,

Thanks for adding the Greem Size 0 Caranday listing. I should have though to do that yesterday when I saw it.

Laura

Sent from Laura's iPhone
I want to give a HUGE SCREAM AND SEND OUT SUPER BIG HUGS to Laura and Kavita for helping to make my dream come true!! Honestly, it was MUCH sweeter the second time around given the help and support by everyone!! Kavita's Caranday came up so UNEXPECTLY that I am truly humbled by her generous spirit!! Thank you EVERYONE for all of your kind posts! I will truly "Pass It Forward" and spread the love I have been shown here to someone else!! There is nothing better in this world than random acts of kindness for no apparent reason!!!!!!!!! AHHHHHHHHHHHHH!! I'm SOOOOOO happy and excited to REALLY get my dress this time!! : )
Join,

But surely you are a very apparent reason.

Sent from Laura's iPhone
Aw, no problem, Joni!
Oh, and if anyone spots a Verdant Slip Dress in the original green color in size 4 or 6 or has one to sell, it would make me equally as happy!
Kavita,

You mean to tell me there are no Verdant Slip Dresses to be found. I have a 4, but I adore it too much to sell. And it's snug on me. If you don't find one soon I will consider selling mine. The Reflecting Pond fits me even more tight. If only I could loose a pound right off my chest. They would be perfect. Ha-ha!

Sent from Laura's iPhone
CS says there are no more Verdant Slip dresses in the original green in my size left in stores and it's sold out in my size online. I would LOVE to purchase your dress if you ever consider selling it! Thanks!
Kavita,

You know it's unlikely to be true. I will APB a Verdant slip in 4 or 6 in my next post. Maybe tonight.

Joni and I were both able to order the incredible The Miss Albright Mary Jane Bow Heels that Roxy shared from the NYC Bogger Event with Anthro. I know you can get them in a few very select stores. They are not available online but there is a way to order them from Customer Service.

I might post that tonight if I have time. Then I will APB your dress. I will APB in every post for as long as possible.

Sent from Laura's iPhone
Oh, that's so nice of you Laura! Someone emailed me and said they are returning one and would try to put it on hold for me so I hope I get it! Will let you know if I do!
That's fantastic Kavita! Fingers crossed!

Sent from Laura's iPhone
Laura and Kavita,
I am also on the hunt for the original (mint) Verdant Slip dress in 4 or 6. Kavita -- were you able to get yours??? Laura -- if anyone else responded to your APB, could you please let me know? aahelton@gmail.com. Kavita is first in line, of course!
Oh, how I regret not ordering it when it first started selling out..... :( It would pop back in, then disappear, pop back in, disappear, and I kept telling myself "Calm down, you'll get it at sale time...." But, weeks later -- still no sale and the dress is GONE! (sniffling).
Anastasia,

As I recall, Kavita did find a dress. I will be happy to add an APB for your dress in my next Post.

Did you comment on EA's Friday In Store Community Post that you are looking for the Dress?

Don't forget to comment on Tomorrow's Looking to Buy post on EA.

Even more important...Monday's are the best day to ask for a Search because inventory is updated over the weekend.

Call CS first thing in the morning. But remember they will not always offer store names if only one or two of your size is in stock. If nothing pans out....

...call a store and ask them to do a store search for you. They will give the name of the stores, even when they only have one or two in stock.

Check the Looking To Sell Post tomorrow and everyday this week. Gals add listing up until the next weeks post. Look for someone that might be about to return a dress in your size. You can find out which store it's being returned to so you can do a call, pay and ship.

If you already know all this and have done all this, then more power to you. Tomorrow will be the perfect day to repeat it all over again. I'll keep my fingers crossed for you.

Happy Verdant Slip Hunting!

From my Yahoo Mail - Laura
Thanks again, Laura! You have shared so much useful information with me today, I am eternally grateful! No, I did not do any of the things you suggested, so thank you for the detailed advice, and I shall embark on my quest tomorrow first thing in the AM! :) Good night!!!
A new header! I love it! So clean and simple. yet shows off your style :-)
You look amazing in the Carandy Dress - as does everyone else I've seen it on. I wish i wish i had bought it.
I love this whole outfit- you look great!

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I did nothing! It was all in the power of the community. I still can't believe how quickly it happened.

Sent from Laura's iPhone
Ebay scammers make me so mad! I once did a BIN for a pair of Budding T-Straps (if anyone wants to unload a size 7, lol, just let me know) that never arrived. I got my money back no problem, though, and hopefully the same will happen for Joni. I'm thrilled she got the dress of her dreams!
4 replies · active 710 weeks ago
Lauren, the same exact thing happened to me with a size 7 BIN pair of Budding T-Straps..hmmm, wonder if it was the same seller?
Alison,

I assume you reported the incident to eBay and PayPal. I know The Seller has since received negative feedback for another non deliverable item. The Sellers feedback stands at -1 at the moment. Joni has not left feedback yet. Another Buyer reported non delivery of a pair of jeans. That should be enough info for you to check if it was the same Seller.

Sent from Laura's iPhone
Alison,

The eBay seller wasYndiana Jorge or Christina66
Yndiana66@gmail.com

PortSaint Lucie,Florida

Sent from Laura's iPhone
Hi Laura,
No, it wasn't the same eBay seller. But thanks for checking. Good for people to be aware!
I love this outfit! The shoes are PERFECT with the dress:) very nice.

I just picked up two more Jackie cardigans today at J. Crew's 30% off sale. Did you snag any more?
1 reply · active 710 weeks ago
Kristin,

As a matter of fact I snagged a J Crew Jackie in Bright Cinnamon for $49.

http://lauravirtualcloset2010.shutterfly.com/5434

From my Yahoo Mail - Laura
wow!! I finally had time to read your post today.
I simply thought you look amazing in the dress and the cardi. And love the new header photo!!

Oh-my.. that ebay experience story is horrible.. How could anyone do that to people??
My brother in law actually had some problem on ebay too..
The Kingston Road Dress was the most expensive purchase on ebay for me. I've been lucky so far!!

I am glad it's the happy ending story!!
oh, and if I ever see a white/ivory top like that, I will let you know!!
3 replies · active 710 weeks ago
Keiko,

Yes! I need help finding my ideal layering top. Little cap sleeves, stretchy, thin, with enough neckline to cover me modestly

From my Yahoo Mail - Laura
How funny. I have a moss Green Anthro tee just like the Ruche top. Has the little seaweed like lace strings hanging down. Must be the same brand. Good try Keiko. But what i need must be stretch, thin and fit snug. I don't have much room between me and the Caranday Dress. So probably elastane or spandex.

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what about i join you ??

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