Saturday, November 5, 2011

Bunny Boudoir - Beating Return Regrets

Nefi has been pronounced a healthy, 8 month old female. Which means I wasn't far off the mark in thinking she was someones Easter Bunny that they later discarded.  How sad is that?  I often wonder if they regret leaving her to fend for herself in that parking lot for several months.  

Nefi's Bunny Boudoir Pose

My Bunny unfortunately hasn't been spayed.  Female Rabbits need to be spayed to...
1.  Prevent cancer. 
2.  Curtail territorial marking. 
and
3. Improve the chance of successful litter box training.  

Ha-ha! Nefi has already accomplished 2 and 3. I made an appointment next week to satisfy 1.  

Since I commonly view expenditures in terms of Anthro Dollars, the price of Nefi's surgery is equal to...

Anthro's Spotted Satchel - by Holding Horses - $268
Nefi is priceless.

Besides, this bag isn't an Orla Keily.  I will repeat this in the hopes I can eventually convince myself that I don't want it.

I couldn't be more proud of my little Half Wild Bunny. Nefi hasn't had an accident in over a week.  Several days ago I hesitantly removed the barriers that kept her out of the area behind her cage. The minute the barrier was gone, she ran back and forth behind the cage, and celebrated with happy go lucky Binkies.

Binkies are twists, leaps and hops, followed by super fast fits, often accompanied by wild head gyrations, that occasionally lead to bouncing off walls, furniture, and fellow inhabitants both feline and human alike.

No more blotting wet stains, while hoping around wearing one old shoe, being  careful that the shoe used to blot never comes in contact with unaffected carpet. No more stepping over vinegar saturated wet spots, liberally coated with baking soda.  No more waiting two days to vacuum up white mounds that seem to grow when your back is turned. No more scent of sour vinegar permeating the bedroom and bath. 

Occasional accidents are to be expected and will be tolerated.

We are now a three litter box household. One box for two cats, and two boxes for one Bunny. 

I celebrated with a few carefully executed Binkies myself.  


Ajisai Dress - by Caligraphy Artist Sariah Carson - Anthro Orig $138 Sale $40 - Oct 2011
Reversible Tank in Black V neck side - by Eloise - Anthro $24 - 2009
High Gloss Belt in Sky - Anthro $28 - Apr 2011 
Jackie Cardigan in Black - by J Crew - $62 - May 2011
Opaque Tights in Green - by Hue - Anthro Orig $12.50 Sale $7 - Feb 2011
Anthro Orig $398 Sale $200 - Oct 2011
Sepia Crocus Bag - by Orla Kiely AW08 - Anthro $178 - July 2008
A Rose is a Rose Earrings - by Etsy Shop Magillie $18 - March 2009

The Anjisai Dress was a collaboration between Calligraphy Artist Sariah Carson and Anthropologie. The color palette and simple floral design is appealing and unique. The negatives include Rayon fabric, a lack of pockets, and a strange fitting bodice.  

The dress runs large, so I ordered a size 4. Normally I'm a six in most Anthro brands.  Several reviewers reported the bodice ran large.  Ha-ha! My hopes quickly dissolved the minute I pulled the dress from the package.  I knew it was too skimpy to cover the girls.  I ironed the dress without even trying it on. Which signifies I planned to work with it at some point.


Despite reviews that suggested layering a tank under the dress would distract from it's appearance, I woke up Tuesday morning ready to make a go of the Anjisai. I layered Anthro's Reversible Seamless Tank in Black with the V-neck to the front. As luck would have it, the 4 fit like a glove through the bodice. If it had been larger, the sides would have drooped, and the dress would have been a sure fire return.   I had to zip and then shimmy in the hard way.


In my opinion, the addition of the tank gives the dress dimension at the neckline. At the same time the girls are fully covered.  


Shop Anthro's Anjisai Dress for Pop Backs HERE.
Check back often over the next few weeks.  

The hazards of being one's own photographer.  Anthro's Anjisai Dress on a headless GeoInCalifornia
See Bonnie of Small Town Fashionista wearing the Anjisai HERE
See Elizabeth of Behind the Dressing Room Door Review the Anjisai HERE
See MR of Mind of Mister wearing the Anjisai HERE

For Fall, I added pops of Blue with a skinny belt (similar here) and earrings (similar here).  I chose Green Tights that would blend with the dress (similar here).  I then layered a Black Cardigan over top (J Crew Jackie here).  I was surprised how easily the outfit came together.


Anthro Orig $398 Sale $200 - Oct 2011
I must confess, I wasn't smitten by these Chie Mihara's until they went on sale.  When they arrived I immediately tried them on.  They are incredibly comfortable. The toe box has a bit more room than most closed toe CM's.  Perfect for the wider front of my foot. This heel base is by far my favorite.  The shoes in side view are a show stopper.  But from my vantage point, the top view didn't cut it for me.  The toe was more rounded than I like. The shoe laces appear messy and hide the cute wrap over strap and buckle.  I immediately placed them in the closet, then proceeded to ignore my mixed feelings for two weeks. 

To Lace or Not to Lace
The same morning I wore the Anjisai, I decided to return the Walthamstows. But not before trying them on again one last time.

The only thing worse than buyers remorse is a case of return regret.

I stared at those wonderfully comfortable heels with the unappealing laces.  I wasn't going to wear shoes based solely on comfort. From the top, all I saw were ugly black lace-ups.

Ha-ha! There was my solution. Right there under those messy black laces were the shoes I envisioned.  Removing them in no way compromised the comfortable fit.


I walked to the far reaches of the park to take photo's. No regrets! Absolutely adore the Walthamstows aka Chie Mihara's Fenomenos.

If you find a pair, don't hesitate, whether you prefer to lace or not to lace.

Shop Anthro's Walthamstow Oxfords for possible Pop Backs HERE

Do you have a story of return regret?


Do you have a standard set of measures you use when a purchase doesn't immediately work as expected.


Do you commonly return purchases without spending additional time looking for a solution?


Anthro Sister Love, Laura (lauramartinsemail@yahoo.com)

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Laura, your headless photo is aok with me.....it lets me get a close up of those cutie patootie shoes and tights.....the print on the dress is so so so pretty.....and bunny is a dream:)

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I had no idea you could litter train a rabbit! She looks so happy. I love your outfit--I really don't even remember seeing that dress on the website.

I sometimes have purging regret--I'll go to reach for something and remember I tossed it in a goodwill bag or sold it on the blog!
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I may find myself having purge regret of my own. I sold my Lolland Sweater Dress. Now I'm wondering why the heck I did that.

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I was wondering why you did that too!
I didn't feel comfortable wearing it. But several of my friends told me it was very cute on me. Now I wish I had at least tried it on one more time to see how I felt about it. I've always thought it looked best on gals that weren't too well endowed.
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Nefi is the cutest thing ever! Like Terrie, I had no idea that you could litter train a rabbit. That's great! Is she now able to just roam around the house as she pleases? She looks so relaxed in the photo.

Good call on removing the laces. I think the shoes look much better without them. The blue belt really pulls everything together!
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Nefi has full access to the house except my closet and the laundry room.

She gets about 90% of her little poops into the box. The rest end up clustered near the box. But they don't stain the rug or stink. I pick them up and toss em in the box.

She knows 'No' too.

The newest problem is she discovered cat kibbles. They contain corn meal. Rabbits love it, but it's bad for them. So we have to put the cat food on the bar.

She started biting yesterday. It can hurt. I read that we should make a loud noise when she bites. She nicked my brand new CM Asterisk Booties.

She also discovered that she can get up inside the box spring in the spare room.

It's a minor new calamity every day. She would have nothing to do with after we returned from the vet yesterday. But she was well behaved while we were there.

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well, of course now you're making me regret not buying these when I had the chance- I love love love the shiny black surface and the buckles. I refrained since I already have a pair of steel grey chie's that I love, but you're not making things any easier!

For me, it's usually things I regret not buying when I have the chance- usually once I return something I have fully and comfortably decided that it's not for me!

Nefi is definitely queen of the roost!
Love that picture of Nefi and her sexy leg pose, hahaha. Her nose spots are super cute. One of my cats has nose splotches too. :)

I wasn't too impressed with the Ajisai dress at first, but it looks fantastic on you. I think the bright blue belt was a great touch and pulls it all together! The bag is too perfect with it, too.
I love the dress with the black cardigan and shoes. I have the same dress, but have only worn it with the yellow cardigan that pulls out the yellow in the dress. I'll have to try the black combo.
Aw your Nefi looks all settled in! Love love to read your updates on him and see pic of him! Thank you for being responsible and spay her. A good rabbit-savvy vet is important, but I get the feeling you know about that already from HRS website! I have been busy lately and not checking blogs so often. If you have any questions regarding bunny-care don't hestite to email me - love to help if I can. Not sure if you heard of "bunspace" it's a very friendly community for bunny lovers! We chat and talk rabbits, blog about our rabbits, lots informations on everything from health, care, or simply fun stuff! Love that dress! I bought it as well! Love the color and it pairs well with so many things! You look wonderful as always! :)
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Hi Emily,

Nefi's vet was recommended. She is a Rabbit Specialist. She will be performing the surgery.

Yes! I know what questions to ask the vet. Thanks to HRS I know insider information. Rabbits never Vomit!

I will check Bunspace. Sounds like a fun place for Bunny Lovers.

Nefi has begun to take nibbles. Usually our socks, shoes, clothing. But sometimes she gets skin. It hurts. I read that you should make a loud noise to let her know it hurts. Because Rabbits will do the same. I didn't think Rabbits make any sounds. Except crunching and munching noises of course.

I think she bites for food and attention. Is there a word or sound that will discourage her? I have been telling her no when she gets into something she shouldn't. She seems to understand NO, and will stop.

When she wants to play she drags the toy basket to the center of the room. And chews bits and pieces off of course. The gray/white cat Heishe, will join in and chase a ball. She rolls her nose against them. Loves the fabric slinky that looks like a Tiger. She sits next to it.

She doesn't like anything I try for a bed. Towels, sheets, rugs, cat bed, box with door cut out. None of them please her. I see photos of Rabbits with stuffed Bunny's all the time. Would that help?

She wants to cuddle with a cat, but they want no part of that.

She goes off to the cold living room and sits by the fireplace. She looks cold and unhappy there.

Thanks so much for commenting. It's good to know you are watching out for our new bunny. Any advice would be useful. I'm very grateful for your input.

How cool we both have Buns and the Anjisai Dress.

Laura
My reply is too long again! I'll email you instead multiple comments here! :)
Laura, love the dress on you. I got it on second cut also. What a great price for a beautiful dress. I hadn't thought about trying it with green tights. I've worn my dress once with the Spotted Diamond tights that were in the catalogue shot.
I know I'm late but I'm catching up the blog posts just now. haha. I have a rabbit as well -a mini rex. he's a handful little boy but he's my baby :').
although I was pretty upset when he chewed on the straps of my Floral Fandango heels :/ he usually doesn't chew on things so I suppose he was looking for attention since I was busy doing my paper. he LOVES to run with me around the house. he's my exercise buddy (even though I get winded a lot quicker lol)
here is a picture of my boy. hopefully the picture shows up :)

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whoa sorry! didn't know it was going to be huge! haha
That explains it. I thought maybe he was a mini of one of those Giant King Rabbits. It amazes me how different Bunnies can look.
He's a mini. He looks huge in the photo. Did you bunny grunt and him no for chewing up those gorgeous Floral Fandangos. Can't understand a herbivore chewing on leather. Wait! Yes I can. Nefi has been swiping cat kibbles lately. Bunnies love corn meal, it's the Chicken and Liver parts that shock me. She chewed through my TV cable last night. It was unplugged waiting to have the insulating cable put around it. Problem is, the insulation isn't wide enough.

What is his name. AnthroChew!

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